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Trust is an Essential Element in a Relationship

By Dio Ravey


Some people whose trust is betrayed just want to end their relationship immediately to let go of the pain and stress. But every relationship, no matter what the problem is worth fighting for. Repairing the damage in a relationship, like rebuilding trust, is a crucial step that could also reconstruct the respect and love for the parties involved.

When trust is an issue in a relationship, it can be disastrous and it can be hard to earn back (but not impossible). Repairing the damage in a relationship, like rebuilding trust, is a crucial step that could also reconstruct the respect and love for the parties involved. So, how do you move past the major pain and put things back on track? It's hard but it can be done and these four pointers can help.

1. Forgive - You have to take your time on this, it depends on how hurt you are about the betrayal.

2. Spend Time With Each Other - You can rebuild your trust by spending some time together because being away from each other will just recall the feeling of being betrayed you will become suspicious again.

3. Talk - Talking about the issue will take more than just one night. It may even take some weeks or months to talk about the situation and how to resolve it.

4. Don't Be Suspicious- Do not accuse your partner of anything that they may or may not do. Trust will not be rebuilt if you continually accuse your partner and there will be times when your accusations are wrong, thus starting a fight and argument.

No matter how hard it might be, if you still love your spouse you have to learn how to trust them again. That is the only way your relationship can continue effectively. If you are having a hard time employing the tips above, then it is time to call for a Professional Counselor. Overcoming trust issues in your relationship will take time and cooperation from you and your spouse.

There is no way you can have a happy and lifelong relationship if there is no trust. If you've had your trust betrayed then you know how hard it can be to let go, move on and fix the relationship. Seeking Professional help will let you heal and understand each other better over time.




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PS Counselling are qualified psychologists in Hawthorn, Victoria specializing in Relationship Counselling for couples. Find out more about relationship counselling.


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